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Let’s look at 1st Corinthians 7:“But if a man thinks that he’s treating his fiance improperly and will inevitably give in to his passion, let him marry her as he wishes. But if he has decided firmly not to marry and there is no urgency and he can control his passion, he does well not to marry.” -1st Corinthians Notice something here: the decision of whether or not to marry and the decision of who to marry are left up to the reader.
Paul never instruct the readers to “ask if it’s God’s will for you to marry.” He never tells the widows to “pray and ask if he’s the one” (or the next “one,” or whatever).
Be sure to read what we have to say in the articles below though; your question may already have been answered!
Dating or courting or whatever you want to call it can be a great way to solidify an already super strong friendship if your parents have given their blessing, God is at the center, and you are both ready to step it up.
I’m not saying you have to start off as “just friends,” but you definitely need to end up as best friends.*Keep an eye out for any major warning signs (dishonesty, abusive tendencies, etc.).*Make sure you have some kind of realistic timeline.
Yet I often here church people saying things like, “I’ll marry if it’s God’s will,” or “I’m waiting for the one God has chosen for me.” Are we trying to be more spiritual than the Bible? Keep these things in mind: God will not choose for you, but He will guide you in finding a good match.
God loves us, and He does not want us to fail in life.
But that sometimes means that He will not give us what we want when we want it because He knows the positive or negative results of our truest desires.
My answer begins with two points: *I really don’t believe God chooses our spouse for us.
*I also don’t believe it’s realistic to think there’s only one person in the entire world you are meant/allowed to marry.